I picture “calling in” as a practice of pulling folks back in who have strayed from us. It means extending to ourselves the reality that we will and do fuck up, we stray and there will always be a chance for us to return. Calling in as a practice of loving each other enough to allow each other to make mistakes; a practice of loving ourselves enough to know that what we’re trying to do here is a radical unlearning of everything we have been configured to believe is normal. …

And we have to remind ourselves that we once didn’t know. There are infinitely many more things we have yet to know and may never know.

Ngọc Loan Trần, Calling IN: A Less Disposable Way of Holding Each Other Accountable